How to know if my bf is gay
In love with my Bf but Im bi and crave a girl
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Monica AKA Mika
14 years agoHi, me and my bf have known each other and have been best friends since 8th grade but we own only started dating 8 months ago and hes always established that Im bi but it is only now becoming a problem. We have had conversations about it and one month he is ok with me talking to a girl and having some sort of relations with her but then he pictures it in his leader and he doesnt feel ok with anymore which is completly understandable and i dont wish to hurt him but at the same time I cant help these cravings that i have and i cant convert the way i am. It really hard for me because he only wants me to be happy but i dont feel happy about doing anything if i know that he isnt going to be content with it completely. I dont know what to do and i wish i could just change how i am but at the end of the day it isnt that uncomplicated. What should i do?
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This is a subject that I contain wanted to write about for a very extended time. Why? Because I once dated a guy who was everything I had ever wanted, until I found something that forever changed the foundation that our relationship was built on.
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Not only did I not find anything from my Google searches, but I actually found a ton of junk out there that personally, I think is very disrespectful to the gay people. If he hangs out with guys, If he spends longer doing his hair than you do, If he dances desire (I dont know what that even means), If he
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