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Can gay men give blood?

Gay and bisexual men are not automatically prevented from giving blood.

Men who possess sex with men and who have had the alike partner for 3 months or more and meet our other eligibility criteria are able to give blood.

Anyone who has had anal sex with a recent partner or multiple partners in the last three months, regardless of their gender or their partner’s gender, must wait 3 months before donating.

We check your eligibility to offer blood based solely on your own individual experiences, making the process fairer for everyone.

If you are taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) or post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) you will be unable to give blood. If you stop taking PrEP or PEP, you will need to wait 3 months before you can give blood.

We appreciate that any deferral is disappointing if you want to save lives by giving blood.

If you have previously been unable to provide blood because of the guidelines and would favor to donate, please phone us on 23 One of our team can review the new guidelines with you and, if e

Bad Roommate: Straight-to-Gay MMM

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His roommate is a nightmare. Alex hates his roommate. Nicky is raucous, he’s messy, and worst of all, he hooks up with someone modern every night—right in front of Alex. But Alex knows the perfect sleeping with Nicky’s male lover best friend. At first, Alex dismisses the idea. After all, he’s linear. Then Nicky ruins another one of Alex’s dates, and Alex reaches his limit. Some things are worth going gay for—and revenge is one of them. The last thing he expects is to appreciate it. Especially when Nicky joins in. Bad Roommate is a short and explicit straight-to-gay community MMM erotica story featuring first period gay scenes, enemies-to-lovers themes, and more!

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Under 12 years old

If you are under 12, even if you agree, another person can’t:

  • have sex with you
  • touch you sexually, or get you to touch them sexually
  • perform a sexual act in front of you.

For more data about what is considered a sexual act, see Sexual assault.

Twelve to 15 years old

If you are 12 to 15, even if you agree, a person who is more than two years older than you can’t:

  • have sex with you
  • touch you sexually, or get you to feel them sexually
  • perform a sexual perform in front of you.

However, it is not an offence if the person honestly believed that you were 16 or if there was less than a two-year age difference between you. This is exactly two years. For example, if a person is 17 and has sex with someone who is 15, it is not a crime. But if the person was 18, it is a crime unless the person believed the person was 16 or older.

For more information about what is considered a sexual act, view Sexual assault.

Sixteen to 17 years old

If you are between 16 and 17 years old, even if you agree, a person who is caring for you or supervising you (like a teac

Sexual health for homosexual and bisexual men

Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to pass on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

Using a condom helps guard against HIV and lowers the risk of getting many other STIs.

If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone recent, you should have an STI and HIV evaluate every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is important, as some STIs do not generate any symptoms.

Hepatitis A

Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.

Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can receive it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated food and drink.

Symptoms of hepatitis A can emerge up to 8 weeks after sex and contain tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).

Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a entire recovery within a